If we identify a list of attachments, what practical steps would you advise we take to remove these from our heart? Some things eg the example you gave of taking a cold shower (ie facing the fear of doing the thing) is a bit more obvious, but if the attachment is to people/relationships, an outcome, or an uncertainty about the future, how can we practically work on removing these (without Allah putting us through that as a test)?
How do you differentiate between working for your goals and outcomes everyone has dreams and goals and work and strive towards these even as Muslims we are encouraged to have goals so how do we remove the attachment to the goal whilst staying enthusiastic about it , same can be said for dua we out our heart and sincerity into our duas we all want things and Allah wants us to ask him in face it's a form worship to do so.
There's a fine line between all this and attachments and I think the lines can be blurred would like to know how to detach
If we identify a list of attachments, what practical steps would you advise we take to remove these from our heart? Some things eg the example you gave of taking a cold shower (ie facing the fear of doing the thing) is a bit more obvious, but if the attachment is to people/relationships, an outcome, or an uncertainty about the future, how can we practically work on removing these (without Allah putting us through that as a test)?
How do you differentiate between working for your goals and outcomes everyone has dreams and goals and work and strive towards these even as Muslims we are encouraged to have goals so how do we remove the attachment to the goal whilst staying enthusiastic about it , same can be said for dua we out our heart and sincerity into our duas we all want things and Allah wants us to ask him in face it's a form worship to do so.
There's a fine line between all this and attachments and I think the lines can be blurred would like to know how to detach
How do we detach from something like a loss that we feel is our fault and that things could have been different
I feel like I've already caught a sniffles from the thought of the cold shower!
Right! Talking about it is enough. 😂